FAQ – Managing Hostile Communication During Divorce
Q: How can I keep my soon-to-be ex from talking rudely, cursing, or threatening me every time we talk?
A: You have legal options to protect yourself and create healthier communication boundaries. Texas family courts often recommend or require parents to communicate through a court-approved third-party app such as OurFamilyWizard, TalkingParents, or AppClose.
These apps serve several purposes:
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Documentation: Every message is automatically recorded, time-stamped, and cannot be edited or deleted.
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Accountability: Because messages can be reviewed by attorneys or the court, most people quickly reduce aggressive or abusive behavior.
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Safety: You no longer have to take phone calls or in-person confrontations that escalate conflict.
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Neutral Tone Assistance: Some apps even flag negative or threatening language before it’s sent.
If the behavior is severe—such as ongoing threats or harassment—your attorney can ask the court for a protective orderor to limit direct contact.
At The Ashmore Law Firm, we help clients set up safe communication protocols and include specific language in temporary orders or parenting plans that require all contact to go through approved apps.
Benefits of Court-Approved Communication Apps
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Keeps all messages transparent and court-accessible
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Prevents manipulation or false claims about what was said
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Reduces emotional stress and arguments
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Creates a safer environment for co-parenting and children
What to Do if Verbal Abuse Continues
If your ex continues to curse or threaten you even through these apps, document every message and notify your attorney immediately. The court can issue sanctions or modify custody and visitation to protect your well-being.
Remember—verbal or emotional abuse is not acceptable, and you do not have to tolerate it.
Learn More About:
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Setting healthy boundaries during divorce
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Co-parenting communication tools approved by Texas courts
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Legal options for harassment and protective orders
Authority: Texas Family Code & Gary Ashmore Super Lawyer in Family Law Dallas, Texas
